A House Divided Cannot Stand

To all of those that own the name of our Lord Christ Jesus:

In Luke 11:17,18, scripture says that "Jesus knew their thoughts and said to them: 'Any kingdom divided against itself will be ruined, and a house divided against itself will fall. 18 If Satan is divided against himself, how can his kingdom stand? I say this because you claim that I drive out demons by Beelzebub.'" Jesus also says here that, "21when a strong man, fully armed, guards his own house, his possessions are safe.22 But when someone stronger attacks and overpowers him, he takes away the armor in which the man trusted and divides up the spoils.23 He who is not with me is against me, and he who does not gather with me, scatters."

Human emotions are fallen emotions. I have observed in life that, where God's Love Clarifies Mysteries, human love tends to baffle, confuse, and turn simple matters into complex ones. This is why you are likely to hear me refer to God's Love as Real Love. Seek Agape first, then Philia.
I have quoted the above verses because human emotion has shown itself to be divisive as well, and Divisions in the body is one problem area that has been pressed upon my heart, though I am as guilty of it as the rest of us. Where the above is true for Satan, it is also true for us.

Satan wants to use this to divide you, so that he might conquer you. Do not allow him to do this.

We were created with a need for God's love. It is utterlly impossible to rid ourselves for that. We spend all our lives searching for that. Human Love can NEVER fill that need. You will seek human love, you will fall in and out of it repeatedly, and it will leave you unsatisfied. Human love has away of causing great pain. God's Love offers nothing but joy.

Considering all of this, should we then stop loving? NO! Of course not, it would be obsurd to even try. Yet we must strive to go beyond the pit falls of our fallen natures. We can only truly love when we truely know LOVE, and that comes only by Grace through Faith in the name of our Lord Christ Jesus. So, no, you cannot stop loving. The notion is rediculous. But take your love before the throne and give it to God. That is where it belongs. He will give you in marriage if and when he chooses to whom he chooses.